Feeling not well at all, and understand tgat others may recommend as their liked choices things you cannot bear

 For feeling not well at all, often helps to keep all persons separate. Like they may recommend as a nice job somethibg you cannot bear, lijewise many dominant inflyencies or deeds of others are their or somebody's view of what would help you, what would be a choice you like and enjoy. So communicating of such differencies often helps to feel better, for example peopke tuned to some very different climate and weather situation than what you are in, even if the weathers are only oytdoors, may make you feel ill, like for example in the spring inflyencies from oeople interested in much colder climates often make one feel ill since it is somewhat like eating too heavy food in the summer, you just do not use that much fat etc and don't feel well with a so heavy feeling as a goal. Similarly people may have other life choices going quite the opposite directilns even if they appear the same, like for example how much of each kind of thing or social inflyences one wants in lufe and in which forms, is one oneself skilled or is one jyst trying to hang in the company of others who take care of such thibgs.